Thoughts on my crisis

Post by **Laz** » Tue Nov 07, 2006 8:24 pm

I agree with Jen, ignoring her would be the best option

Or on the other hand, the fantasy version which would be a bad move in reality, but is fun to think of - Accuse her of stalking you - ahhhhh the irony.

Shadowsong · Post by **Shadowsong** » Wed Nov 08, 2006 9:21 am

Yes, the irony.

Well, anyway, it turns out she was in actual trouble. And I had promised her in the past that she could reach me if she was in trouble. Like it or not, I live up to my word. An uncomfortable situation is no excuse.

I know not to get myself involved or to leave myself open. I've taken steps on that subject.

Thankfully that thing is over now.

It probably would have looked better if I pretended I kept on ignoring her, but that would have been a lie, and I wont tell lies just because the truth makes me look like an idiot.

Post by **Xyon_of_Calhoun** » Wed Nov 08, 2006 3:12 pm

Good to see. (The truth thing)

Shadow, the truth doesn't make you look like an idiot. Remember, I know you, and from all of the stuff I know, she's the idiot for behaving the way she has.

If anything, you've been too patient with her. That's obvious, and has probably been said here before. This doesn't make you look idiotic, it just emphasises the point that you actually have/had feelings for this girl.

Don't judge yourself too harsly, mate. You did nothing wrong in this little chain of events so don't beat yourself up about it.

Shadowsong · Post by **Shadowsong** » Thu Nov 09, 2006 12:21 pm

Thank you, my friend.

I know I have done nothing wrong, but I'm sure some people here *coughs*Jenica*coughs* must be frustrated with me since having told me to "Get. The fuck. Away. From her."

Only reason I bothered mentioning it this time was because people had assumed I was ignoring her this time around. Not judging myself harshly or beating myself up about it, just not hiding a semi-ugly truth. Again, Xyon, thanks for all the support you have been.

Post by **Frug** » Thu Nov 09, 2006 5:53 pm

Well you won't get any sympathy from me if she stabs you in the back again. Tsk tsk.

Post by **Xyon_of_Calhoun** » Fri Nov 10, 2006 10:44 am

Hey... that's my job *stabs*

Now, before you bleed to death, shadow, take heed of my signature.

Shadowsong · Post by **Shadowsong** » Fri Nov 10, 2006 3:44 pm

Frug wrote:Well you won't get any sympathy from me if she stabs you in the back again. Tsk tsk.

You're right, but no, it is dealt with now. What happens next I don't know but there is a high chance this is the last of it.

Not making any decisions, but at least she's ok, and that still matters to me.

Post by **Xyon_of_Calhoun** » Tue Nov 14, 2006 12:07 pm

Just take care of yourself, mate. The rest will come with time (And he's older than ME)

Shadowsong · Post by **Shadowsong** » Tue Dec 19, 2006 10:10 pm

GOOD IS ON OUR SIDE THIS DAY!!

Great news!

Well, we know this girl has been back in touch...

Well, someone

saved all the messages she sent. And, after getting fed up of said girl saying one thing and doing another, showed these messages to the manager.

Which nearly knocked her from her seat.

Suffice to say, this evidence that this girl has been less than honest with all parties concerned has cast major doubts on everything previously said about me.

So my name has been cleared and the black mark is gone.

It feels like she will never change, and that feeling is so liberating.

So we have a happy ending.

Post by **Frug** » Wed Dec 20, 2006 3:27 am

If you like, I can spread rumors about you that are twice as damaging and three times less likely to be true.

Shadowsong · Post by **Shadowsong** » Wed Dec 20, 2006 7:59 pm

Frug wrote:If you like, I can spread rumors about you that are twice as damaging and three times less likely to be true.

I expected better from you. That is really not funny.

Post by **Xyon_of_Calhoun** » Wed Dec 20, 2006 8:17 pm

No, but better he offer than I, since you know I'd do it just for a laugh...

Post by **Frug** » Wed Dec 20, 2006 11:52 pm

My apologies then, just trying to make light.

Jenica Sabiny · Post by **Jenica Sabiny** » Thu Dec 21, 2006 5:38 am

Whoa whoa, wait a sec. You thought he was serious, Shadow? Seriously? You've like, READ our smart-ass stuff, right? Please tell me you didn't take that seriously, and that I'm just retarded and didn't get your joke.

Shadowsong · Post by **Shadowsong** » Thu Dec 21, 2006 9:27 pm

Thank you Frug. No problem.

Yes I did figure that it was a joke, just that after having my name tarnished by the situation it is very difficult to appreciate the humour there.